7 Myths About Sex Toys

Even though sex toys have been around since the first documented civilization in human history, there is still a plethora of myths surrounding them. Using sex toys is a great way to explore your body and sexuality in a safe and fun way! With that being said, here are some of our favorite myths about using sex toys and why they’re untrue.

Sex toys are only for vaginas

Easily the most false myth on this list! There are sex toys for everyone, regardless of genitalia. No matter what kind of pleasure you’re looking for or what area of the body you’d like to stimulate, we have something for you. Toys have evolved past just the realistic-looking dildo or violently loud, bright pink vibrator.

If you want to stimulate the penis, there are cock rings, masturbators and strokers, or even penis pumps!

If you want to stimulate the anus or prostate, try plugs, beads, or prostate massagers!

Or, if you want to stimulate the nipples, there are clamps and nipple vibes for you to try!

Sex toys are only for single people

Wrong! Once again, sex toys are for everyone! Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or have multiple partners, you can find sex toys to suit every need. In fact, toys specifically designed for couples have been coming out for a little while. One of our favorite couples’ toys has to be the We-Vibe Sync 2^nd Generation, meant to be used during sex to provide pleasure to both partners involved.

Bringing toys into the bedroom with your partner is new and exciting and fun!

Using sex toys means you’re not satisfied by your partner

Just because you have introduced toys into the bedroom does not inherently mean that you’re not satisfied with your partner in bed. On the contrary, using sex toys as a couple can be a great way to discover new erogenous zones and different ways to please your partner. Toys are for exploration and enhancement, not replacement. If you’re thinking of bringing toys into the bedroom with your partner, communicating that with them beforehand is incredibly important.

Sex toys can be harmful

Only if you use them incorrectly! As long as you follow the instructions that came with the toy, you’ll be absolutely fine. We do not recommend using homemade sex toys; those from reputable sex toy brands go through rigorous testing to ensure they are as safe as possible. Furthermore, toys nowadays are made with body-safe and hypoallergenic materials (such as medical grade silicone and borosilicate glass), making them safer than ever before.

If you experience discomfort when using sex toys, be sure to use plenty of lubricant to ease friction. Not sure what kind of lube to get? Don’t worry, we have a post for that. If you still experience discomfort, please consult a medical professional.

It’s also important to clean your toys after every use to avoid build up of harmful bacteria, especially if you share your toys.

If you use them too much, you’ll become dependent on them

Nope! A sex toy’s main function is to enhance your sexual experience, not create a dependency. By using toys, you can explore new and different sensations and kinds of pleasure, broadening your sexual horizons. Not only that, but you can better understand your body and enhance your overall satisfaction and arousal.

Sex toys are only for pleasure

This couldn’t be further from the truth! As well as providing mind-blowing pleasure, sex toys also have significant wellness benefits. For example, vibrators are excellent at relieving menstrual cramps and pain by increasing blood flow. Furthermore, Kegel balls work exceptionally well at strengthening pelvic floor muscles, improving bladder control and overall pelvic health. And let’s not forget that brands created the massage wand to alleviate muscle pain… we just found another use for them over the years.

Having sex toys is a dirty secret

There is absolutely no shame about owning sex toys. Years ago, it may have been taboo, but not anymore. Seeking pleasure is not dirty, wrong or shameful! Finding out how you feel pleasure is incredibly important and feels amazing. Now that sex toys and sex shops have become more mainstream, people are more accepting of toys now more than ever!

Overall, while myths about sex toys may still exist, they are completely ridiculous and false. Sex toys are safe and – more importantly – fantastic! Exploring your sexuality and body with sex toys is healthy and conducive to a thriving sex life.

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