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For our plus-sized customers, you might not know where to start when finding the right sex toy for you. Sex toys are there to provide pleasure and release no matter what size you are. Here we will give you certain things to look out for when you’re buying a sex toy and throw in some specific toys that our plus-sized customers and sales assistants really love!
Longer Reach
One aspect where some plus-sized people might struggle when it comes to using toys is simply reaching where you want them to go. Whether it’s finding something to reach over your belly, or maybe you just have shorter arms, this can be frustrating. In this case, toys with a longer reach are your best friends. To help with this, you’ll want to go for a longer toy, or one with a long handle.
Opting for longer or larger dildos are most likely the first solution that you come up with. This is by no means a bad solution, but we can get a bit more creative. Besides, you might want a longer dildo, but maybe not a thicker one – normally the longer the dildo, the girthier. If your heart is set on a dildo or dong, it might be worth turning your gaze towards a double-ended dong. Not only do you get the reach that you’re looking for, but they also come in a range of shapes, sizes and colors – just like with regular dongs. They’re also super flexible, making that reach even more attainable.
If you’re looking for a toy that vibrates, another classic option for plus-sized people is to go for g-spot vibes. These toys have a longer reach than your classic bullets, and they come with a curved head, intended to hit the g-spot. This design also is perfect for queen-sized people who need that extra little reach to the clit. Our plus-sized customers love The Sweet Smile G-Spot Vibe. Its curved shaft is ideal for reaching and stimulating those spots that need your attention, especially the clitoris.
However, if you’re on the hunt for as much reach as possible when it comes to vibrating toys, massage wands are the way to go. By design, wands have long handles and as a plus they have very strong vibrations. Feedback from our customers is that the Bodispa Wonderwand 2.0 is a true fan favorite. The curved handle is ideal if you have a larger belly or shorter arms as it provides an elongated reach. And with its flexible neck too, you’ll definitely be able to find the perfect angle for you.
Flexible/Poseable Toys
In a similar vein to the longer reach solution, poseable toys make self-pleasure for plus-sized people even more accessible. Due to the flexible nature of these toys, you can bend them and angle them to your heart’s content, making the toy fit to your body shape. Some of our favorite poseable toys include:
The Nobü Bao. This vibe from Nobü Toys is incredibly flexible and can bend as far as you need it. A lot of our customers tend to use the shaft as a handle to use the clitoral stimulator more efficiently, or vice versa. These kinds of dual vibes on the whole are super useful for queen-sized people who also want to have options for different kinds of pleasure.
The We-Vibe Chorus. Similarly to the Nobü Bao, this toy is incredibly flexible and allows for a wider variety of movement and positions. Thanks to its squeezable remote control, you don’t even have to fiddle around with small buttons. Simply squeeze to change the vibration! Available in Cosmic Pink, Cosmic Blue, and Crave Coral.
Strapless strap-ons are another very surprising kind of toy that unsuspectingly works wonders for our queen-sized customers. Take advantage of both ends to create a more diverse and pleasurable experience. Use either the longer shaft or the shorter end as a handle and use the other where you need it more. Then switch it up if you feel like it. Most of these toys also have a vibrating clit pad, giving you the opportunity to experience different kinds of pleasure.
Remote Controls/Hands-Free Toys
Another type of toy that makes self-pleasure for queen-sized people easier is using anything hands free or that comes with a remote control. Simply have the toy in place, and that’s it. Sex toys are meant to make masturbation easier, right?
Toys with remote controls are great for everyone, but for plus-sized people they can really elevate your experience. Anything with a remote control is always a hit. All you have to do is insert the toy wherever it’s meant to go, and voila! The only thing you have to focus on is the remote control. Anal toys and g-spot toys often come with this remote-control feature, so you have a plethora to choose from.
Panty vibes are also pretty much exclusively controlled via remote controls – since they’re meant to be discreet for wear on the go, it makes sense that you shouldn’t have to fiddle around with controls in your underwear. These vibes have a magnet to keep the vibe secure in your underwear, and then the remote does the work. Or hand it over to someone else and let them have control. One of our favorite panty vibes is the We-Vibe Moxie due to its powerful vibrations and super smooth and silky silicone. Available in Aqua and Black.
A more recent addition to the sex toy scene is the creation of app-controlled toys. These are also plus-size friendly since you don’t have to worry about reaching for miniscule buttons or controls. The apps connect to the toys via Bluetooth and that’s that: control your toy from your phone! Toys from We-Vibe and Satisfyer often come with an app-controlled feature. With these apps, you can also create your own vibration patterns or even sync it up to your Spotify! And if you have a long-distance partner, they can download these apps as well, meaning they can join in on the fun from afar! These toys do tend to be on the pricier side, but the wide range of possibilities makes it worth the price point.
Couple’s Toys
While remote-controlled and app-controlled toys are great for getting your partner involved in your pleasure, they don’t really work if you want to use them during intercourse. In this case, toys that lay flat are a good choice. These toys can lay comfortably between both partners during sex. Now you don’t need to worry about constantly reaching over your belly – the toy should stay in place regardless.
The Nobü Kölo is a great choice for a flat couple’s toy. However, it also comes with a curved tip, making clitoral stimulation easier as it can fit to your body shape.
To summarize, there are so many options for our plus-sized customers! Our sales associates have many tips and tricks when it comes to toys and all the different ways to use them. If you’re still not sure which toy would work for you, stop by one of our stores or reach out to our customer service team.
If you have any more questions or queries, feel free to email our customer service team wecare@pleasuresntreasures.com or drop in to one of our stores! Our team is happy to help answer any questions you may have.
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