Happy National Fetish Day! Every year on the third Friday of January we celebrate all things fetish and kink! Raising awareness about BDSM and educating others about how to explore your kinks safely, National Fetish Day is a day to practice harmless and satisfying fetish play. Whatever your fix or fantasy may be, you are valid and Pleasures N Treasures offers you a safe space to explore it judgement-free.
What is a fetish?
A fetish is an object or act that provides or enhances sexual gratification or release. If you get horny or you find something arousing, you have a fetish. Nowadays, people link fetishism to BDSM, latex catsuits and kink-wear, or even more taboo activities. However, a fetish can be anything as long as it provides some form of sexual stimulant. Some of the most common fetishes today are feet fetishes and cuckolding.
There is nothing inherently wrong with having a fetish, as long as you act on your sexual urges safely and with consent.
What is National Fetish Day?
Long story short, National Fetish Day celebrates and supports the BDSM community. The goal of having a National Fetish Day is to spread education and awareness about fetishism and kinks while encouraging members of the BDSM community to be more open and accepting of their sexuality.
While originally being an event called “Perverts Wear Purple” in the UK, National Fetish Day has extended to all forms of fetishism that might not necessarily fall under the umbrella of “perverted”. However, the spirit behind the initial event remains the same: creating a safe space, supporting safe and consensual fetish play.
Myths Around Kink Culture
One of the key objectives of National Fetish Day is to challenge stereotypes. Kink and fetish communities are often misunderstood. However, studies have shown that people who explore these interests experience enhanced communication skills, deeper emotional connections, and heightened self-awareness.
Let’s dispel a few common myths:
- Myth: Kink is inherently dangerous.
Reality: When practiced responsibly, with proper knowledge and consent, kink can be as safe as any other activity. - Myth: Fetishes stem from trauma.
Reality: While everyone’s sexual interests are shaped by unique experiences, fetishes often emerge as natural variations in desire and not necessarily linked to negative events.
How to Celebrate National Fetish Day
- Educate Yourself: Read books, listen to podcasts, or attend workshops about kink culture and safe practices.
- Support the Community: Explore local or online events, join forums, or support kink-friendly organizations.
- Reflect and Respect: Use this day to reflect on your own boundaries and desires while respecting the choices of others.
If you’re debating on dipping your toe into the wonderful world of fetish and BDSM, we have an entire blog post dedicated to the tips and tricks of beginner-friendly BDSM.
Pleasures N Treasures is also proud to stock a wide variety of BDSM and fetish products! Head to our website to see our vast collection of items, ranging from restraints to whips and crops and more!
If you have any more questions or queries, feel free to email our customer service team wecare@pleasuresntreasures.com or drop in to one of our stores! Our team is happy to help answer any questions you may have.
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