Anal Toys for Beginners

Finding the best anal toys for beginners can be – literally – a pain in the butt. But it doesn’t have to be! This guide is here to teach you the ins and outs of anal play. From which toys are best suited to newcomers and how to use them, this post will give you all the tips and tricks you need.

Why should I try anal?

Here at Pleasures N Treasures, we absolutely love butt stuff! Anal play and anal sex have become popular in the mainstream with more and more people dipping their toes into different kinds of pleasure. For those with a penis, the butt is home to your prostate (or P-spot), which is the equivalent of the clitoris or G-spot. This means that anal play can introduce you to a whole new world of pleasurable sensations. And women shouldn’t sleep on this either! Even though you don’t have a prostate, there are still pleasure spots in the butt that you can hit. Believe it or not, the clitoris extends all the way down to the anus, making anal play just as pleasurable for you too!

Adding anal play to foreplay or penetration can be a fun way to add another touch of excitement to your bedroom activities. You can even try enhancing masturbation or solo play by incorporating plugs. Try things out and see what feels good!

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What toys should I use for anal play?

The most important thing to remember is… don’t go sticking just anything in your butt.

There’s a reason why anal toys look and feel a certain way: companies have spent decades creating sex toys that are safe to use. You’d always rather be safe than sorry; so, choose a toy from a reputable sex toy manufacturer rather than a homemade probe. Nurses have had enough of removing things from butts that should not be there.

Beads

Anal beads are a great choice if you and your partner want to try out anal play for the first time. You can still use anal beads during solo play, but it might be a bit trickier on your own. The trick with using anal beads is timing: inserting and removing them at the right time. If your partner is experiencing pleasure, inserting the beads should be fairly easy and not incredibly noticeable. We suggest warming the area up first before going in with any toys: relax the muscles around the butt hole first so it’s less of a shock when something is inserted.

It is always advisable to start off small, though. There is no such thing as too small when it comes to anal toys.

When it comes to removing anal beads, the best time is when your partner is climaxing. Slowly removing anal beads during this time adds another layer of relief and release. They key to removing anal beads is to go slowly. You’re not starting a lawn mower or chainsaw.

For beginners, we love the Beginner’s Bead Kit from the Anal Fantasy Collection.

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Plugs

Anal plugs could be a better choice for solo play or if you’re a little more experienced with anal play. Like we mentioned with anal beads, warming the booty hole up first and getting it used to new sensations is always a good idea before going straight in with a toy.

The most important thing to consider with plugs is the base. All good anal plugs and massagers come with a flared base. The anus is a super strong muscle comprised of 3 separate sphincters which is how we control our bowels. Basically, anything that’s in there stays sucked in there, and this applies to toys too. Flared bases stop the toy from getting sucked inside. Plugs with T-bar bases are also a great choice for beginners! The base nestles neatly between the butt cheeks while keeping the toy inside safely.

When it comes to the shape of the plug itself, the smaller the better when you’re just starting out. Avoid plugs with bulbous tips; instead, choose something cone-shaped or tapered. These shapes are overall more comfortable for beginners. Quick tip: if it looks like a lightbulb, it’ll feel like a lightbulb.

Plug kits are also a good choice for beginners, especially ones that gradually increase in size. This allows you to slowly become more accustomed to the new sensations. We recommend the Nobü Glass Gems 3 Piece Set: smooth glass and 3 different sizes of plug, it makes a great choice for beginners.

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What material should I look out for?

Great question! Here’s a list of common materials that anal toys are made of and their properties:

Silicone:

  • Body-safe and hypoallergenic: silicone is a great choice for most toys.
  • Silky smooth feeling.
  • Great for vibrating toys.
  • Not compatible with silicone lubes. Since silicone is a common ingredient in anal lubes, this is something to consider with anal toys. However, you can pop the toy in a condom if your heart is set on a silicone toy.
  • It’s harder to bring silicone toys up to room temperature than other materials. While this might not seem like a big deal, you’ll be surprised how much of a shock it is to put something cold up your butt. Trust us, warm the toy up in your hands first if you can.

Glass:

  • Body-safe and hypoallergenic: glass is another common choice for anal toys and dongs.
  • Shatterproof: it won’t break while using it, we promise.
  • Compatible with all lubes. Silicone anal lubes are great to use with glass toys.
  • Temperature play. Glass toys are built to change temperatures easily, meaning you can warm it up in your hands beforehand. Always a plus.

Metal:

  • Body-safe and hypoallergenic. Most metal toys use a nickel-free stainless steel, making it a safe choice for sex toys
  • Compatible with all lubes. Use all the silicone lube you want!
  • Temperature play. Like with glass toys, companies make metal toys to take advantage of changing temperatures. Warm it up a little in your hands before use, you’re sure to thank us.

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What lube should I use?

For anal sex specifically, the obvious choice is anal lube. Silicone anal lube is thicker and lasts longer than water-based lube. Since anal sex involves more friction, choosing something that’s long-lasting is your best bet. Our best seller for anal lube is the Swiss Navy Slip N Slide Jelly.

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If you want some more info about the best lube to use, check out our post specifically about all the different kinds of lube.

Do I really need to clean my anal toys?

YES! Clean your ass up! Keeping your anal toys clean is super important. Not only does it keep you safe from infections, but it also helps your toys to last longer too. If you’re sharing toys with a partner(s) then you’ll need to clean them thoroughly after every use with a good toy cleaner.

Also, if you’re using a toy (or body part) in the butt, you should be cleaning it properly before using it in the vagina. Much like wiping, you should always go front to back and never back to front.

If you need some more information about why and how you should be cleaning your sex toys, check out our blog post.

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Incorporating anal play and anal sex into the bedroom, whether with a partner or solo, is super exciting and can introduce you to new experiences and sensations. The trick is to take it slow and – literally – calm your ass down. If your mind is at ease, your butt is at ease too, making anal play easier. Take deep breaths, take your time, and enjoy the new sensations!

If you have any more questions or queries, feel free to email our customer service team wecare@pleasuresntreasures.com or drop in to one of our stores! Our team is happy to help answer any questions you may have.

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